Man, I really hate to hear this.
Tell ya something my sister was doing that just blew me away. Remember I have her gelding over here. And heck, we both grew up on horses, not like she doesn't know what she's doing.
Well, apparently, with this dressage bunch, they like to give a lot of treats, which I think is a big no/no. So every time her and the kids would come over, she has this big thing of treats that she would feed the horse, and he'd danged near take your hand off to get it, and if you didn't have one, he'd get real pushy, all 16'2 of him. Well, she has a young son, who's 3, well, they've got little hands... so he wants to give Cinco a treat... I saw it, and saw the horse coming at him, course sister's off doing something else not paying a bit of attention, and I'm like ... well, you know, the scream. I turned around and ripped a new one on my sister. Told her there would be no more treats, period, whatsoever, nada over here, I wasn't having somebody getting their danged hand bit off. And if she didn't like it, she could find some place else for him to be. Got a real stupid look, but dang... I swear, as smart as someone people, sometimes ya gotta wonder, they must have not been in the common sense line when they were told to line up... jeesh!